How To Make Your Ex Girlfriend Miss You And Want You Back
A complete solution to help you get your ex back into your life is provided at the end of this write-up (Author's Bio), meanwhile let's build the foundation. Making your ex girlfriend miss you is the best thing that you can do to get her back. When you think about it from a psychological perspective you will understand how powerful it is.
We all value that which is rare, the same goes for human beings. If you are not always around then she will start to see you differently and your Ex Girlfriend thoughts about you will change too. If you manage to put some space between you both after the break up, she will soon start to miss you, a lot quicker than she expects too. If she is the one that broke up with you, she will probably be expecting you to act in a certain way.
The fact is that she will be relying on you feeling a certain way about your Ex Girlfriend. If you do not give your Ex Girlfriend the satisfaction of pining for her and chasing after her, she will be stumped and have to reassess your relationship. When you surprise someone, especially after such a close relationship, they will suddenly be interested in you again, because they will be struggling to work out your actions. This mysteriousness and confusion are then the secret of making your Ex Girlfriend want you back.
They are very attractive traits, particularly in the eyes of a female. This may all sound very confusing to you, the female mind is! The important thing that you have to remember though is that you should fight your emotional reactions after the break up and stop yourself from contacting your ex girlfriend.
You have to be strong and show your Ex Girlfriend that you are worth taking back, not a needy wreck who has no direction in life without her. Also, do not do what she expects you to do and plead for her to reconsider, you have your self respect and she will not view you favorably if you do this either. If you want to use the techniques on how to make your Ex Girlfriend miss you properly you will have to show some restraint here.
She does not want to see you blubbering or pleading on her to give it another shot. Reverse the roles here for a second and think about how it would look to you if she did this - unattractive and desperate right, Keep this in mind when you next feel like contacting your Ex Girlfriend or telling your Ex Girlfriend how you feel. She will be expecting you to contact your Ex Girlfriend in some shape or form after the break up and this will give your Ex Girlfriend satisfaction as she knows that you still have feelings for her.
Instead of letting this happen you should make your Ex Girlfriend work for your attention instead. This can swing the whole situation in your favour and make your Ex Girlfriend be the one who is chasing you. To do this you will stop all forms of contact with your Ex Girlfriend and drop off her radar for a while.
She will secretly be looking out for you and trying to see how you are after the break up, this is only natural. If you take yourself away from your Ex Girlfriend then she will have to fill in the blanks herself. You want to seem like you are busy and that you have better things to do with your time than contact your Ex Girlfriend. She will also me much more likely to contact you when you do this and ask you how you are doing.
I'm not saying that you should completely ignore your ex girlfriend if she gets in touch with you, this would be rather stupid and give your Ex Girlfriend the idea that you are not interested or are being childish. Instead, if she does happen to text you to say that she misses you or just to enquire about you, you should be pleasant and answer your Ex Girlfriend questions, but not go into detail.
