How To Make Him Emotionally Attached To You So He Can't Let You Go
It feels scary for you now that you feel hormonally hooked on him. Women need to enjoy dating and stop being so focused on the future. And it's hard to enjoy dating when you never go beyond first few dates. That's not how you learn about men and what works with them.
Any man even when he's not the one, come to your life for a purpose: to teach you something. Enjoy them. Take advantage of the lessons they bring. Thank and appreciate them. You'll be surprised at what you are actually capable of and what you are getting from these encounters. This is the secret of my happiness being single.
And you won't be happy being in relationship with anyone when you don't know how to be happy having a relationship with yourself (being single). Unlike us, a man views relationship as a piece of the mosaic of his life vision. He will need to sense a woman if she can fit in that big picture; if she will help him in his life journey or if she will weigh him down.
It's a huge factor for a man before he can decide if he wants to commit to a woman (read this for more clarity: Four Keys To Commitment). Unless a man feels he's in the position of power to attain his life goals (and a man won't feel like a man if he doesn't have this), he won't feel relationship with you will matter that much.
Be a big part of his support system and he will see you as indispensable. In this regard, allow a man not to know what to do with you in the beginning (let him take his time), yet he also has to understand that you can't put all your eggs in one basket. A woman needs to take care of herself first and foremost as men always do.
He just can't resist but thinking about you all the time. Realize that in the beginning a man will observe us and wait for "the other shoe to drop." He's on the fence and noncommittal until he gets all the information he needs. When a woman does exactly that too, he's thrown off balance because men are usually more used to "where is this relationship going" kinda talk. He'll be impressed, "hey, she's not desperate." And with that his guard is lowered.
I do think both men and women should gather all the information needed before committing so it's not about playing games. Watch This Video To Learn more about WHY MEN PULL AWAY and How To Bring Them Back. As soon as a man has his guard up, he will not fall in love or get attached.
The only way he'll get attached is if you lower his guard first. I have a man who told me "I don't see marriage between us, do you," just a few weeks ago to wanting to be with me every night now. He hasn't said much of anything but his behavior says it all.
He's attached emotionally already! And he told me how my interest in his school (paper/writing) is really a big thing about me in his eyes, as well. I'm not in the way of his life journey, in fact I'm supporting him. Another thing to note is when a man says he's not looking for a relationship, trust him but if you like him enough to keep him around without getting attached, go for it.
