Break Up With Him
Your may have spoilt your boyfriend by giving him all that you have. Pause and think for a while - it may be time to take a step back and not get too engrossed with him. Try to act as if you do not care for him as much anymore.
He may eventually just get the whole picture - that he hasn't been a good boyfriend to you lately. Do some activities without him. If you have been too clingy on your boyfriend, he probably thinks that he is your world and that you could not live without him. Do not give him that idea; instead learn to do things on your own this time.
Try to make him jealous. Does he think that he could be the only guy in your world, Most boyfriends who act like jerks are those who are full of themselves and those who think their girlfriend would never leave them. Try to make him jealous and he might just think otherwise.
Stop communicating with him. A little distancing could work wonders in making your boyfriend realize exactly what your worth is. He might just do some extra efforts to get your attention back. Hang out with other people. Again, learn to associate with other people. Do not give him the idea that there will never be any chance of you ever leaving him.
Besides, socialization could help you prepare for an eventual breakup. Break up with him - temporarily. Does he still act like a total jerk on you, Tell him you need some space and time to think things over. Tell him that you need to assess how he has been treating you.
Doing so might make him realize his errors and change his ways. Leave him for good. There is no use in sticking to a guy who does not give importance to you. If he keeps ignoring you even if you've brought out all of your tactics in getting back his attention, then leave him for good - you might just be able to find someone who's much better.
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