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I looked more attractive, but I was also smiling much more, so I, I was giving off better signals. I really enjoyed both of my dates and on both occasions felt that we got on well together. “Ruth is a beautiful girl, but she would admit herself that in the past she has gone for the wrong men - handsome guys she sees as being different or exciting but who, ultimately, haven’t made loyal partners. She’s also understandably still traumatized about being left by the father of her child. The specialist: Ruth had a counselling session with relationship expert Corinne Sweet, a relationship psychologist who is also a regular contributing psychologist on Channel 4’s Big Brother series. Corinne says: “Ruth is someone who has been quite badly hurt in the past. She thought that the father of her child was the love of her life.
They had a passionate relationship but he wasn’t father material and left her for another woman. She was very open and friendly with me but struck me as someone who made snap judgements. This way you’re much more likely to have fun, make a friend - and who knows where that may lead, Equally don’t lay bare every aspect of your life because you’re likely to overload someone else with your problems. It’s also important to keep some boundaries in the relationship - don’t talk about yourself too much at first. You may think you’re being open but the chances are that you’ll actually come across as self-obsessed.
Instead concentrate on asking about his family and friends and interests. Ruth says: “I found talking to Corinne very helpful. On my next two dates I really made an effort to ask them questions and listen. Even if you’re not interested in what they’re saying, feign interest. I did - and I felt that the dates went much more successfully: everything flowed better. I also made an effort to steer the conversation around to man topics like cars. I think that Corinne is really right about men - in general you probably do need to pamper their egos on the first few dates to get things off the ground.
I also think that if you don’t volunteer too much about yourself you keep some mystery about yourself. Both men liked her but found her quite distant and not very forthcoming. Both Steve and James said they felt they had to do most of the talking - James said he felt as though he had to coax answers out of her. He also felt she was quite distant and was holding him at bay. The specialist: Emma had a consultation with relationship psychologist Corinne Sweet, who says; “Emma is extremely cautious about relationships and this results in her having too high expectations about what a perfect partner would be like.